With New Eyes
We’ve been back in Cervinara for a couple of weeks and by
now I would usually have posted a blog or two about my impressions upon
returning; the weather, the menus, the changes in our little neighborhood. But this year has been different in that we
came over with our daughter, her husband, and our two year old grandson,
James. Then, their friends arrived with
their four (count ‘em!) four children, aged 10, 5, 3, and 8 months. We have had quite the crew!
It’s chaotic, of course.
Kids running back and forth, splashing in our little pool, discovering
the deliciousness of cherries picked right off the tree, apricots all sweet and
juicy, and watermelon at the ready, and experiencing the freedom that comes
with having our own little cortile where they can do crafts, explore and just
kick the soccer ball around. It’s a joy
to have a houseful of happy kids, even if our floors may never recover!
But the best part of having these little guests is how we
get to revisit old spots and do old activities yet see these things through new
eyes. Our James is enthralled with every
new discovery. A bag of old keys found
in the storeroom has provided hours of playtime for our little fellow. The little plastic wheel barrow and the
springy hobby horse, both of which have been here for over 40 years, are
sources of delight. Getting our
vegetables from the local vendor who passes by in his truck is a thrill for
this guy, as it is for all the children.
They come back from the truck with kilos of fruit, which never lasts
very long!
We have taken them to the bakery where they’ve peered into
the wood burning ovens and have seen the giant paddles the baker uses to pull
the warm loaves from their heat. We have
taken them up to the Mafariello springs where we have grilled burgers and let
the kids run through the pine groves and taste the cold, sweet water that is
there for the asking. “Mountain water”
has become James’ go-to drink. We have
taken them down to the Villa Communale where there is a merry-go-round, swings
and a little play castle. First we go to
Micione for gelato (James always wants fragola (strawberry)), then it’s off to
the play area where friendships are made and the gelato sugar rush is run
off.
When he goes out on
the balcony first thing in the morning on his way to the potty, he always looks
up and says “Beautiful mountain!” He loves to run down the covered alley way
into the back garden, where there is a nice little echo when he yells. What fun all the kids had at the market,
where they were able to see the chicks and ducks, watch the fish being weighed
and do a bit of shopping. Ten year old
Julie was so thrilled to have completed her own purchase for a cute little
hoody.
We’ve had a huge family dinner up at the Giardino pizzeria
around the corner. It’s so nice to know
that even as 8 month old Sammy screeches because of his teething issues, and
James and 3 year old Ava want to run around under the trees, no one is
judging. It’s a family place, the food
is good, the owners bring out a free Nutella pizza for dessert for the
table…it’s not a scene we would readily find back in the States.
I asked James the other day what he liked most about
Italy. Ava said the gelato. Amelie said the cherries. James said “Olives”. Indeed, our olives here are unlike any we can
find in the states and we relish them as long as we can. The fresh ricotta was another source of
enjoyment; bought still warm from the cheese vendor’s trunk, it was eaten fresh
from the bowl, cooked into crepes with eggs, and mixed with honey and lemon to
be served next to grilled peaches. This
latter treat, laced with some Strega, was saved for the adults.
I have waxed poetic
here about the day to day activities that are part of our lives here in
Cervinara. So routine are they that I
have forgotten how special they can be.
By having this household of kids, and being able to show them how
different things can be, we have all had our eyes opened again to the
excitement and beauty of the new. Our
little friends are gone for a few days now, which is why I finally have the
time to put these words together. They
are enjoying the sun and sea of Sorrento and Ischia. They’ll be back for a few days and then are
heading back home, to normal lives of air conditioning, TV, and swimming
lessons. I hope that they will remember
the freedom they enjoyed here, the joys of kicking a soccer ball around the
piazza, drinking from the fountain down in piazza Elena, and slurping up a
gelato at the Villa. I hope that they
will remember that there is more than one way to live one’s life and that the
world is full of new and wonderful things.
I hope that their time in Cervinara will enrich them for years to come.